Exceptional leadership isn't
about having all the answers.

It's about staying grounded when you don't.
Reading the room while making the call.
Trusting yourself and your team—especially under pressure.

Brené Brown calls this grounded confidence:
the ability to navigate complexity with courage, clarity, and self-awareness.
Not performing certainty. Actually embodying steadiness.

What this looks like

You walk into a difficult conversation. You feel the stakes—but you don't get hijacked. You stay present. You speak clearly.

Your organization announces another transformation around AI with impossible timelines or unclear strategy. Instead of panic, you slow down the room. You ask the questions no one else is asking. You create space for your team to process what this really means.

Critical feedback comes your way. You hear what's useful, let go of what isn't, and move forward without the spiral.

You make tough calls under pressure—not because you're certain, but because you trust your judgment. And your team trusts you.


This is grounded leadership.
And it can be developed.

The real challenge

The leadership challenge of this moment isn't AI, restructuring, or economic volatility. It's what constant disruption does to the humans in charge.

The pressure to move faster. Decide faster. Transform faster. While internally, you need the opposite: space to think, to sense what's actually happening, to lead with intention rather than reaction.

Most leadership development focuses on skills and strategies. But the leaders who thrive in complexity aren't the ones with the best frameworks. They're the ones with the deepest self-knowledge—who can stay steady while everything around them is not.


That's the work.

Deep self-knowledge as the foundation for leading with integrity

When you know yourself deeply, everything changes.
You hold your values under pressure.
You navigate uncertainty without losing yourself.
You make conscious choices instead of reactive ones.


Five dimensions.
One foundation.

Grounded Leadership

  • When you know what matters—really know it—decisions become clearer. Even when everyone's rushing toward the next transformation.

  • Your circle of influence is wider than you think. We learn to take it back—moving from reaction to creation, so you can model it for your team.

  • Bring all of yourself to your leadership—mind, heart, intuition. Stop fragmenting yourself to fit in.

  • The ability to stay with what is—without fixing, fleeing, or fighting. In an age of constant disruption, your steadiness becomes a gift to everyone around you.

  • Real relationships, not performance. Showing up as you are. Seeing others as they are. Trust built through genuine relating.

How we work together


Six months.
Ten sessions.
Real transformation.

We meet every two weeks for 60 minutes via Teams or Zoom. Between sessions, I'm available via WhatsApp or email—to celebrate your wins, review documents, strategize before an important meeting.

Six months because sustainable change takes time. You'll feel shifts within weeks. But the deep rewiring—the kind that holds when pressure peaks—that takes months.


Where we start:
The AQai Assessment


After our first session, you'll complete the AQai Adaptability Assessment—a science-based tool that measures how you respond to change and uncertainty across dimensions like resilience, mental flexibility, grit, and emotional range.

Why adaptability? Because in a world that won't slow down, your ability to stay grounded while everything shifts is the difference between burning out and thriving. The assessment gives us a precise map—so we're working with your actual patterns from day one.

Learn more: aqai.io/assessments/aqme


What's Included

10 individual sessions: bi-weekly, 60 minutes each

AQai Adaptability Assessment: your starting point

Ongoing support: WhatsApp/email between sessions

Customized resources: tailored to what you're working on

Welcome package: to set you up for the journey


Investment:
€ 3,500

After our initial six months, many leaders continue with monthly sessions or quarterly check-ins. We'll design what serves you.

Selected organizations I've worked with

Corporations

● Scout24/ImmoScout24
● DKB Deutsche Kreditbank
● Mercedes-Benz ● TeamViewer
● ARDIAN ● DCMN ● CodeFactory
● e-pixler 

Industry Associations

● Handelsverband Deutschland (HDE)
● Verband Öffentlicher Banken (VÖB)
● BVR –Bundesverband der Deutschen Volksbanken und Raiffeisenbanken

Public Sector & Politics 

● BVG Berliner Verkehrsbetriebe
● Stromnetz Berlin
● FDP Niedersachsen

Civil Society & Foundations 

● Heinrich-Böll-Stiftung
● Berliner Stadtmission
● Neue deutsche Medienmacher*innen
● Impact Hub

  • „I often thought of Elli as my 'head chiropractor' — our conversations always left me mentally realigned, and their impact would resonate for days afterward. She never imposed solutions but helped me find my own."

    Julia Schieber, Director of Product

  • „I frequently use practical frameworks from her 'Leader as Coach' course to navigate complex situations. As a challenging and supportive sparring partner, Elli helped me connect my personal values to my work and gave me the confidence to trust my instincts during organizational change."

    Kirstin Hofstee, Director Cloud Infrastructure, Scout24

  • „I came into coaching looking for tools—but what I found was far more powerful: clarity, confidence, and a renewed sense of integrity in my leadership. I'm grateful not only for the professional growth I've experienced but also for the person I've become along the way."

    Jekaterina Cechini, Senior Director Product Management

  • „Elli has a rare balance of deep empathy and true objectivity. She not only helped me understand my own leadership patterns but also the motives behind others' actions — making tough situations easier to navigate."

    Ahmet Kesen, CDO, Königspunkt

  • „Elli was my anchor in the stormy sea. She creates an atmosphere of safety and trust where you can walk through your fears and blocks, just accepted as you are."

    Markus Wenzel, Director IT Infrastructure, TeamViewer

Let’s talk

If you're ready to lead from a deeper place—with more clarity, more presence, more you—let's have a conversation.


No pitch.
No pressure.
Just a conversation to see if this is right for you.